Making bids of connection can be wildly disappointing in early dating. Many people experience dating fatigue because they don’t know how to do this right! — Early dating is a very complex space to navigate for so many anxious people. As a big fan of straightforward communication, I find it even more confusing when on top of managing my anxiety I have to also decrypt messages coded in very complex metaphors. So I looked deeper into…

There’s a lot of shame around being the “villain” in relationships and setting hard boundaries that affect the other person’s needs and expectations of what the relationship should be about. However, there are a lot fewer conversations about healthy boundaries and how to create and design them in the right way to prevent you to lose yourself in the relationship and ultimately betraying your own needs.

The number one lifespan predictor is based on the nature of our closest relationships in life according to research on social connection and systemic frameworks in 2022. There’s no wonder then that most people live a long happy life by nurturing their relationships with their significant other. As such, this article will tackle the indicators that influence the ability to keep healthy relationships in our lives and heal wounds of our own individual past together.

If you’re struggling with dating and you feel like you end up in the wrong relationships because men are not able to commit past a certain point, then probably the problem is not about commitment but about consent! Yes, we live in a ME TOO era where most men are not used to saying NO when their emotional boundaries are being violated so women have the power to change their own outcomes by changing the framing of the problem.

We first learn relationships through the codependent nature of our bond to the caretakers. We need our parents to survive and we think that relationships with a romantic partner will also be as codependent as this. We would feel we don’t have air anymore without our partner and that’s exactly the kind of toxic relationship we want to avoid. That’s where the socks analogy comes in place. — Most often we run into problems in our relationships when we have a certain set of expectations that don’t overlap the blueprint of our partner. Once the first compatibility tests are passed by a couple, the ultimate compatibility is being able to adjust, compromise and collaborate in making the life…

For most people who feel sad and depressed, the first action they take is to get on anti-depressives and carry on with life as usual. But there is another way to go about this without involving drugs which only add up to bottling up emotions in the body: emotional healing therapies! — Being able to accommodate uncertainty in life is part of the development stage explained in Bowlby’s theories on attachment when the child learns to detach themselves from the parent. That detachment is the part where the child learns to take care of themselves in the world. …

The problem with death is that too often we connect it to a cemetery. And that is becoming especially important for religions like Christian Orthodox ones. But there’s a systemic root cause of why this is happening and we are not getting it solved for centuries because we can’t think straight when we’re grieving. — From a very young age, I hated cemeteries. Not just the places but also anything that would lead to thinking of such a place where there is so much grief gathered in one place. It felt like the dark whole that would drag you in it and you’d not be…

Digitalization of recruitment going through the age of Applicant Tracking Systems is proving to leave a lot of “humans” out of the workforce. This article goes in-depth about a problem we already face in recruitment for some years and will be even more intensified by the millions of job seekers left in unemployment due to Corona and automation of processes using RPA ( robotic processing applications).

“Say you’re sorry like you really mean it!” If you’ve heard this and you felt ashamed and guilty for not really being “honest” enough for the person who asked you this, then you’ve probably been gaslighted and you don’t even know it! — This is the line I’ve heard from my mom back in my childhood every time I would get her upset about something that I didn’t consider my fault but had to apologize for it anyway. …